Zan Perrion – Enlightened Seduction The Way Of The Natural Conversation Examples
This is pdf book with conversation examples from Zan Perrion Enlightened Seduction – The Way of the Natural DVD Set
I want to start off by saying you’ll need an open mind if you’re going to read this review. The product is definitely outside what mainstream society finds “acceptable,” and will likely offend some of you. With that said… Some men appear to be naturally good with women (for a real-life example, hang out with Urban Monarch contributor Sifu). They easily flirt, make women laugh, and have a certain charisma about them. If you approach one of these guys and inquire about how to be better with women, he’ll usually shrug and say, “I don’t know… just be yourself.” But we all know that answer isn’t much help. Everyone assumes that some guys get lucky and are born with it, while the rest of us have to watch from the sidelines. You’ve either got it or you don’t.
But Zan has a different viewpoint. He believes these men, so-called “naturals,” aren’t born with the ability to flirt with and seduce women, they learn it. And what one man can do, so can another. Deciphering the mindset of a natural isn’t easy, but that’s what Zan has attempted in the first disc of his “Way of the Natural” DVD series. He outlines ten traits that all seducers throughout history have embodied within their daily lives – from Casanova to George Clooney. For example, the first trait is “They are all his girls.”
He has immense compassion for women. He sees their sadness, their loss, their faded dreams. He makes it his mission to impart beauty into their life again. He does this with every woman – including the 60-year-old waitress who’s serving him eggs for breakfast. He makes that waitress shine, he makes her feel pretty. He makes her feel alive and inspired again
“They are all his women.”
Zan is saying that a natural seducer doesn’t pick and choose who he flirts with – he’s charming to all women. He simply takes joy in brightening a woman’s day and making her feel good about herself.
Another trait is “He never kisses and tells, ever.”
He feels no need to validate himself to other men by bragging about his exploits. His encounters with other women are never about bolstering his self-esteem or adding another notch to his bedpost – it is all about respect. This is because he’s not interested in taking something, but in sharing something with her. A woman that trusts you enough to open her heart, emotions, and body, is something that’s very profound. It can never be taken lightly. Other traits focus on challenges from women, body language, and what women mean when they say “a man needs a sense of humor.”
Overall I found the disc very entertaining and informative. You can sense that Zan has a real compassion and love for women – he’s not out to manipulate and use them. Adopting the “mindset of a natural” would give the vast majority of men a radically different way of interacting with women – a way that results in more happiness, playfulness, and trust.
About Author:
Zan Perrion is one of the early members of the seduction community, and a strong advocate of natural game. His company, Enlightened Seduction, teaches guys how to be more attractive to women without relying on canned lines and routines. Zan is an internationally lauded writer and professional speaker with the an uncanny skill of informing and inspiring his audiences toward excellence in all aspects of life. Zan Perrion is an influential force in the seduction community. He advocates sincerity in the pursuit of women and is thus a proponent of natural game. Zan travels the world teaching men and women the art of seduction and is also runs a natural game forum where artists who are into the natural game method can discuss ideas and new breakthroughs. Zan is also a frequent speaker within PUA communities, and his non PUA lingo also prompts much media attention from dating magazines to news broadcasts of a traveling “Casanova“.
An entire chapter of “The Game” was devoted to Zan, and he’s become extremely well-known for his more natural and enlightened form of interaction between men and women, romance, and pursuit of more exciting relationships through romance.
Zan Perrion, dubbed the modern day Casanova and a seducer in the true classic sense of the word. With his rich history with women and with the deep passion he has for them as his main drive, Zan offers an almost opposite perspective to the other PUAs and dating gurus out there. Instead of continually being obsessed with your inner or outer game, try the true charmer’s way of focusing on the magic of the woman in front of you.
Zan was the first ever to illuminate natural game and also probably the only dating coach who truly practices it. Think the Don Juan romancer, not the hyperactive drunk-like nightclub PUA. In this program Zan talks about the 10 traits of a true natural, as well as on the course of male, female and relationship behavior. He does include plenty of real life examples of how he tends to behave and talk while meeting women, so there’s no shortage of practical advice
David DeAngelo has called Zan “an example of a true natural“. Neil Strauss devoted an entire chapter to him in his New York Times bestseller The Game, Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists – calling him “the undisputed heavyweight of the genre“. Mystery has proclaimed “I want to be like Zan!”
Zan has always focused on a very “natural” approach to dating and seduction… shying away from routines, scripts and all the other things that make pickup hard.
Zan’s approach to succes with women makes him the closest guru to a modern version of Casanova, so be prepared to be transported back in time to the origins of seduction.
We’re proud to have him part of our event.
Zan Perrion offers his services through his venture, Way of Attraction.