Joseph Matthews – Charm School
Description:
How To Use Your Personality To Win The Heart Of Any Woman. This book is first and foremost a tutorial on charm – that quality that has made leading ladies swoon for generations, and has made their leading men not only sex symbols, but icons.
A good portion of the book will deal with humor. It will describe how and when to use it as well why it is so important. I believe that a good sense of humor is essential for anyone who hopes to enjoy his life. I will further add that humor and laughter are the key ingredients that separate a guy who is simply nice, from a man who is truly charming.
This book will also contain some more general advice on achieving success with women, and what it takes to achieve that success. The more complete we are within ourselves, the more we can offer to others. There are very few things that are more charming than a person who knows what he wants, and strives to do better every day. Everything contained in this book is an opinion that I hold to be true. Every word is something that I believe, and every piece of advice is what I would hope to be given if I were to ask for it.
The statements made here are based on personal experience, and the personal experiences of people I call friends. They are laid out for your information, amusement, and edification. I hope everything contained here works as well for you as it has for me. I can’t say definitively what will work for everybody, as we all have different needs and different situations. What follows is simply my advice on what is attractive not just to women, but to the world. In addition to straight forward advice, I’m including a fair amount of anecdotes that I’m hoping will help illustrate the concepts contained in this book.
Some of these stories are from my own life. Some are from the lives of people I know. There might be one that I read in a book somewhere that I believe to have happened to a friend. In any case, the only thing that I will change in the transcription of these events will be the names.
All the women will have stripper names — not because all women are or should be viewed as if they were strippers, but because stripper names are cool. All the men will have Asian names for the same reason.
Table Of Contents:
– Introduction
– The Importance Of Honesty
– Charm By Definition
– Starting Off
– Compliments
– Manners
– In Your Face
– Expand Your Horizons
– What About Slob?
– Exercising
– Vocabulary
– So You Think You Can Dance
– Why Be Funny?
– Why Me Funny?
– How To Begin To Amuse
– Jokes
– Go With Your Gut, Literally
– Insults
– Represent Yourself
– The Devil’s Advocate
– Don’t Over React
– Control
– On Being an Extravert
– Presence
– Gifts
– Where to Meet People
– Forward, March!
– Admitting Fault
– Moderation
– Accentuate The Positive
– It’s a Long Story