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You’re About to Learn the Real Reason a Man Will Suddenly “Disappear” from Your Life…
Even if He Seemed Into You or Told You He Loved You…
And the Secret to Not Only Keeping a Man Totally Hooked But Making Him Feel That He Never Wants to Leave
“This Book Will Change Your Love Life”
‘Why He Disappeared’ is exactly what I would have wanted to write if I were a man…Evan tells it to us straight – with humor, with passion, and in a way that will stick with you – that will actually make a huge difference for you. We women have been sold the lie for so long that we have no power in relationships – and Evan turns that lie around and gives you your power back. He not only gives you your power back, he shows you exactly how to use it – and what’s even MORE important, how NOT to use it. I love his “tough love” – because sometimes it’s hard to see how much power we actually have, and because so many “gurus” are afraid to say the truth about men and relationships.
If you’ve been frustrated and confused about why your relationships aren’t working the way you want them to – this book will change your love life. Coming from a man who’s had so much experience helping women in real life, who has so many success stories in his track record and has a distinctly masculine point of view is just so incredibly valuable. I loved it.
#March 17, 2021 – Wednesday#
Hi,
Thanks so much for visiting my website. I’m excited to share with you the secrets of what men are really thinking, but before I do, I want to ask you a question about your past:
Have you ever felt an intense connection with a man – one where you felt like you “just knew” it was right?
You know what I’m talking about.
He was good looking and charming. He seemed to “get” you and seemed to know exactly what to say to make you feel good. He gave you butterflies when you thought about him and your knees would go weak when he ´d look at you a certain way.
Your Heart Raced Every Time The Phone Rang, Hoping It Was HIM
He gave you that hopeful, anything-is-possible feeling. You know that feeling. You love that feeling.
Nothing is more real. Nothing is more exciting. Nothing gives you more hope about the prospect of true love. And since all the positive signs were there, you began to look further ahead.
You started to picture your future together.
You told your friends and family about him.
You imagined events down the road – traveling, holidays, kids.
You had every reason to think he felt the same way. He told you that you were beautiful and sexy. He would ask you if you’ve ever been to exotic destinations and that maybe one day he’d take you. He’d hold your hand and share his dreams of having a family someday.
He seemed so into you. Everything was going so great.
Then, Suddenly, Out Of Nowhere, He DISAPPEARED
At first, you didn ´t believe it was really happening. You figured it must be some miscommunication.
He told you he ´d call you, but he didn ´t.
He didn ´t call the day after that, either. Or the next. He didn ´t e-mail, or text, or anything. Zilch. Zip. Nada.
So you began to make excuses for him to make yourself feel better.
“Maybe he just got busy.”
“Maybe he’s having a hard week.”
“Maybe he’s in a bad mood.”
You tried to stay calm, but inside, you were an emotional wreck. You attempted to piece things together in your mind. Did you do something wrong without even knowing?
No, you told yourself. Everything was perfect.
You went through the checklist in your mind. He definitely found you attractive. He definitely made an effort to see you. He definitely talked about making future plans.
So What Happened? It Just Didn’t Make Any Sense For Him To Disappear
You took a chance and decided to send him a quick note, “Haven’t heard from you in a few days. Everything okay?”
But it had already been a few days since you sent him an email, and you still hadn’t heard back from him.
You started to worry. You became despondent.
You contemplated breaking your telephone silence and calling him.
But you knew better. You held back. You stayed cool.
A few days later, there was a ray of hope. He responded to your email with his own email: “Sorry I’ve been out of touch. I’ll try to call you soon.”
You told yourself that this was good news. But deep down, you knew what would happen. A few more days went by and he didn’t follow up. Another week passed. Finally, you couldn’t help yourself.
You called him. You texted him. You called him again.
Nothing. It’s as if he fell off the face of the Earth.
Once again, a promising guy disappeared… and, to this day, you still have no idea why.
You Know You Could Have a Chance of Getting Over Him and Moving On…
If Only You Knew WHY He Disappeared
Disappearing men are the most common dating issue in the entire world, and yet there don’t seem to be any solutions. Worse, you find that you can’t successfully move on.
You meet other guys who don’t give you the same spark.
You spend nights thinking about where you went wrong.
You burn up countless hours with your friends, who assure you that he didn’t deserve you, that he’s intimidated by you, that he’s an emotionally unavailable player who’s afraid of commitment.
And while you want to believe them, a part of you wonders if you might have played a small role in why he disappeared.
If you’d only understood him better, if you only handled things smoother, if you had only given him what he wanted, maybe there would have been a different outcome.
I hate to tell you, but your instincts are right.
You could have kept your intense connection alive…
You could have avoided this sadness and confusion…
You could have had the relationship of a lifetime…
…if you’d only understood the unspoken desires of men.
Now, for the first time, you can.
Stop Wasting Your Precious Time and Energy Obsessing And Become More Successful In Dating By Learning From Your Mistakes
“Be Amazed At How Much Better Your Love Life Becomes.”
This book is so simple yet so profound and important. If every woman knew and actually DID what it suggests, there’d be a lot more WILDLY happy women – make that COUPLES – in the world. I LOVE ‘Why He Disappeared’ and agree with every word. Get it, read it, reread it and commit it to memory, and then stand back and be amazed at how much better your love life (not to mention your whole life!) becomes.
First of all, it’s not your fault that you don’t understand men. There are no high school or college classes on this subject, no dating Masters degrees that you can put on your wall.
You go to school, you date around, you fall in love, you fall out of love. You break a few hearts. You have your heart broken. This is the way we pursue relationships.
As an intelligent woman, you’ve probably even noticed patterns in your behavior. Your attraction to cute, charismatic alpha males. Your aversion to nice guys who bore you. Your desire to find a man who is taller, smarter, more generous, and more successful than you. Your refusal to settle with the wrong guy, no matter what.
You feel like you’ve learned a lot, yet the results are always the same:
You don’t want the men who do want you.
You want the men who don’t want you.
And after the latest disappearing act from a man who really seemed like he cared, you’ve just about had it. You’re determined to figure out WHY this keeps happening, WHAT you can do to prevent it, and HOW to avoid men who will break your heart.
But, for the life of you, you can’t figure this puzzle out.
You know you’re a great catch.
You know that you’ve got a lot to offer.
You know that you’re smart, interesting, independent, and passionate.
All you’re looking for is a man who has all of these qualities as well.
Is that so wrong?
Of course not! Really, you deserve it!
Still, Everywhere You’ve Turned For Advice, You Haven’t Learned A Thing You Didn’t Already Know
Your friends, your family, women’s magazines, dating books, Oprah: everyone reminds you that you’re a goddess, a princess, a diva. Love will find you when you least expect it! Don’t waste the pretty!
And yet here you are, at the end of your rope, after spending one month, three months, six months, one year, WASTING your precious time on another man who disappeared.
STOP!
The secret to understanding men doesn’t rest in talking to other women.
You Want To Know The Truth About Men? Listen To A Man
“Ever Wished You Could Take A Guy For A Beer and Pick His Brain?”
Ever wished you could take a guy for a beer and pick his brain about what real men think about dating and relationships? About what makes men fall madly in love with some women and completely vanish on others? Well, “Why He Disappeared” is even better, because it reads like a conversation with a good friend, but Evan just so happens to be a professional dating coach with all the answers you need to whip your love life into shape.
There are plenty of finger-wagging “gurus” out there who will dish out the tough love. But who wants lectures when you’re confused and hurting? With a unique combination of charm, wit and wisdom, Evan delivers the message you need to hear to get the love you want. I wholeheartedly recommend this wonderful book.
And not just any man. You want to learn from a man who’s made it his life’s work helping women understand men and teaching them how to have more fun with dating and relationships.
My name is Evan Marc Katz. I’m a dating coach who has written two previous books on relationships, and coached thousands of women to understand men. Before getting married in 2008, I was a serial dater, had numerous six-month girlfriends, three-month trial relationships, six-week flings, and, yes, even a few one-night stands.
In other words, I’m not just a professional dating coach, I’m also the guy who disappeared on you. The guy who seemed like he was really into you, but was having second thoughts in his head the whole time.
And I’m speaking for other men – quality men – who have done the exact same thing. We are smart, we are kind, we are successful, and we are as relationship-oriented as you are.
But there are a few major mistakes that the most impressive women routinely make, which drive men to seek out other relationships.
After fifteen years of dating and seven years of coaching, here are the three biggest ones I’ve been able to identify:
The 3 Biggest Mistakes Women Make That Cause Men To Disappear
Mistake #1:
Believing That What Attracts Him to You is the Same Thing You Find Attractive in Him
You look great for your age. You’re educated. You make your own money. You’re smart, analytical, resilient, driven, ambitious, and independent. You know what you’re worth and, after a few bad experiences, you’ve vowed never to compromise to be with anyone who isn’t up to par.
Yet every once in a blue moon, you meet a man who makes the cut.
Your attraction is strong. Your connection is real. Your chemistry is white hot.
You dive into a relationship … and he breaks up with you a few months later.
Next thing you know, he’s involved with another woman who isn’t nearly as attractive, successful, or impressive as you are. And you scratch your head and wonder what head injury this man has suffered to choose such a woman.
Why would he give you up for her? It’s completely confusing… unless you understand men. Then, it makes perfect sense:
What you’re looking for in a man is NOT what he’s looking for in a woman.
- He doesn’t care if you’re smarter than he is.
- He doesn’t care what you do for a living or if you have a healthy bank account.
- He doesn’t care if you’re cultured and well-traveled and sophisticated about the finer things.
Thus, your strongest traits – your intelligence, your success, your independence, your drive – don’t matter as much to him. He wants what he can’t get from his male
friends.
A man wants a woman who makes him feel good, who makes him feel loved and secure. He wants someone who makes him feel sexy and trusted.
Regardless of what you do for a living, how successful you are, or even how beautiful you are, if you don’t consistently make him feel good when he’s with you, he’s going to disappear and find a woman who does.
Mistake #2:
You’re Being Too Proactive
Men win you over by giving to you. We ask you out. We call you. We pay for dates. We initiate sex. We ask for commitment. We propose marriage. We give. You receive. Reverse this order by asking him out, initiating sex, asking for commitment, or proposing marriage, and a masculine guy will feel, well, emasculated. Thus, if you want a masculine guy, your greatest move is to embrace your passive feminine side.
You may hate the word passive. You may think it sounds like a 1950’s housewife, or a helpless woman who can’t do anything for herself.
Not quite.
Being passive doesn’t mean that you can’t do anything proactive. It means that you’re choosing not to do anything proactive, because being proactive during courtship is ineffective in making a man feel attracted to you.
Here are a few common examples of being proactive:
- You have a great date, you email him the next day to say you had a lot of fun.
- You haven’t heard from him all weekend, you text him to make sure he’s doing okay.
- You want to see him next week, you tell him his favorite band is playing downtown and you can get tickets.
- You’re confused about where your relationship stands, you ask him where things are headed.
You think you’re being real; he thinks you’re acting clingy. Understand, the man of your dreams doesn’t NEED to be pushed to be your boyfriend.
The disconnect is this: You want men to actively pursue you. But most men do not want to be actively pursued. The only guys who do are really shy, really insecure, or really clueless about women. Most men will value you more if they have to win you over. That’s what guys mean about a “challenge”. So step away from “The Rules,” which tell you to refuse to return his calls or act like you’re busy when you’re not. All I ´m asking you to do is embrace your receptive feminine energy.
Continue to push men for dates, commitment or clarity, and watch them run away.
Mistake #3:
You Worry Too Much About Getting Hurt Again
You’ve probably been hurt by guys in the past.
One boyfriend may have cheated on you. Another may have dated you for three years but didn’t want to get married. Another might have been a friends-with-benefits guy who never wanted a relationship with you.
And because you’ve had these life experiences, you’re determined to learn from them. You tell yourself that you’re never going to find yourself in that position again. So you become vigilant. You look for the signs. You seek “red flags” and instantly dismiss a man you even SUSPECT is going to be a player, a commitment phobe or a wishy-washy loser.
You ask him probing questions on the first date, looking for chinks in his armor.
You make it perfectly clear about what you will or won’t tolerate up front.
You ask where your relationship is going after the third date.
Then you wonder why he disappeared.
Here’s the deal:
Men are not heartbreakers looking for our next victim. It is never our goal to hurt you at any point in time. Like you, we’re not sure what will make us happy. All we know is that we’ll know it when we see it.
But you’ve gotta give us the chance to reveal ourselves over time.
Push your boyfriend to know where things are going too soon and you’ll quickly find that they’re not going anywhere at all.
How can you learn about a man and protect yourself without scaring him away?
Fortunately, it’s not that hard to show you how to make different choices in your love life — choices that lead to more nurturing, stable, meaningful relationships without compromising your needs or risking that a good man will disappear on you.
“I’ve Found A Sense of Peace Around My Dating That I’ve Never Had Before…”
Before reading “Why He Disappeared,” I would put a lot of hope and expectation into every encounter and into any new guy I’d start to date. This inevitably led to big disappointment when things didn’t work out. Earlier this year, I found myself at my wit’s end — once again left wondering what went wrong, or what I did wrong, after another non-starter relationship. And that’s when I contacted you…and what led to my breakthrough.
Actually, you broke through to me by helping me shift my perspective. It took a while… but I finally get what you mean when you talk about letting go of control. More specifically, letting go of trying to control what I can’t control — namely, anyone other than myself. Letting go has given me confidence. It’s given me choice. But, most of all, it has set me free. From anxiety (will he call/care/commit?). From worry (why isn’t he calling/caring/committing?). And from self-doubt (what am I saying/doing wrong?).
By letting go I’ve found a sense of peace around my dating that I’ve never had before. I now know not every date I go on has to, or will, mean something. And instead of sweating the “what does it all mean?!” stuff, I’m focused only on having fun and being a fun date. It’s been working for me and it appears to be working for my dates. But don’t take my word for it. Here’s a snippet from an email I received the morning after a recent date I went on:
“I just wanted to say that I really enjoyed spending a few hours with you yesterday. Your down-to earth attitude and easy-going demeanor made me feel at ease. I hope we can meet again and pickup where we left off.”
Thank you so much for giving me the jump start I needed to get going…and to keep going!”
Best,
The One Reason That Men Disappear, More Than Any Other, By Far…
For too long, you’ve accepted this pain as just part of the dating process.
It doesn’t have to be.
There are women out there — not many, but a few — who are really good at handling men.
There are women who are in happy relationships, women who have happy marriages, women who don’t spend any time wondering about why he disappeared or when he’ll disappear.
It’s not that these women are smarter than you (they’re not), prettier than you (they’re not), or kinder than you (they’re not). Perhaps they have brothers. Maybe they have lots of guy friends. They could have had a number of long-term relationships. Whatever it is, there’s a handful of women who know what makes men tick.
That’s the big issue, isn’t it? Why do guys do what they do? Why are they so confusing?
They’re confusing because you are not a man. (Believe me, that’s a good thing!)
But just like 99.99% of men could use a crash-course education in understanding women, the vast majority of women have never bothered to view the world through a man’s eyes.
And if you’re only viewing the world through your eyes, you’re only getting half the picture.
I’d like to give you the rest of the picture.
I’d like to explain to you why men choose some women and not others.
I’d like to illustrate to you that the women who do best with men are those who truly love men for all that they are.
Strong. Smart. Sexy. Generous. Thoughtful. Sensitive. Funny.
Believe it or not, there are LOTS of men out there who are ALL of these things — but they may not be looking for you as you’re looking for them.
I should know. I was one of those guys. I have no doubt that I was the subject of a few dozen “why did he disappear?” conversations.
I also know that despite seeming like a player, I was always looking for a relationship, I never wanted to hurt anyone, and would never openly criticize a woman I was dating. I was a genuinely good guy who wanted to settle down and have a family, but went through hundreds of dates who didn’t understand me as a man.
On paper, there was nothing wrong with these women. Smart, successful, interesting, educated, attractive, sophisticated, ambitious, opinionated — these were the qualities that drew me to them. Yet they were never enough.
It wasn’t until I met my wife — with two brothers, an ex-husband and a father in the military — that I truly found a woman who understood men, who knew how to make me WANT to commit to her for a lifetime.
My attractive, relationship-oriented male clients feel the same way. Every single one has identical frustrations with the women they date, which has nothing to do with how these women look, how smart they are, how funny they are, how successful they are, or how educated they are.
Date after date, week after week, it’s always the same story: Men of all different ages, of all different stripes, from all over the world pass up amazing women for reasons that the women have never even considered.
Yet somehow, I still didn’t think there was a need to create an entire book around just one question.
Then I found myself on the phone with a close friend who happened to be a business coach. She’s in her early 40’s, attractive, successful, and highly self-aware. When we were discussing her latest fizzled relationship, the first thing she said was: “If you could write something that explains, once and for all, why men disappear in the middle of dating, you would be doing the world a great service.”
I immediately got to work.
“Evan’s Guide Showed Me What I WAS DOING WRONG”
Ouch!!!! That hurt. I mean really, really hurt. I read the entire book in one sitting. Reading Why He Disappeared was like reading my own personal dating history replete with failures. Except this time, I have the opportunity to get it right.
I just told my boyfriend of 3 months (yes, he does all of the things on the checklist) that I totally trust him…and that was the night before WHD went on sale. This came as the result of another single, mutual friend of ours trying to sabotage our relationship. It made us stronger. It made me anxious to buy Evan’s book. I am a successful, independent, African American attorney. I live in Memphis, TN which, among other issues, does not have the greatest reputation for being a place where singles can live, thrive, and DATE.
I am now dating a wonderful and successful African American man whose devotion to me never ceases to amaze me. We are both in our late 30s (I am 37 and he is 36), and yes, I do want children someday. Neither one of us have children.
Although, I am in a relationship, I found the advice on page 35 of the book regarding what men want to be highly enlightening. I too believed that just being beautiful (I am often told this by men and women alike), successful, financially stable, secure, confident, and a great cook, would cause me to have men lined up down the street and around the corner–not so. I blamed it on the “shortage of dateable/marriagble black men”. I blamed it on the fact that most of the men I date have not acquired the success (nor the financial stability) I have, and they are intimidated. Evan’s guide showed me what I WAS DOING WRONG.
When my guy called last night (he works in corporate America and travels with his position), we talked, I giggled softly, I did not indict him for his perceived flaws, he asked if I minded cooking lasagna for him when he returns this weekend, I obliged. When we hung up the phone, I COULD FEEL THE SHIFT. He called me back before going to sleep thanking me for being supportive of him.
We have been friends since we were 16, and yes, I do LOVE this man. Thanks to you, Evan, I now have a fighting chance with this relationship before knocking myself out of contention. No, I do not know whether I will marry him, but if even my excuses about the shortage of men of my ethnicity could be dissolved by reading your book, then ANY woman’s excuses should dissolve just as rapidly.
THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS GIFT WITH THE WORLD.
Sincerely,
What I’ve compiled in my eBook, “Why He Disappeared” are the very things that men hope and pray that you figure out on your own.
The same exact way you hope that a man will simply listen to you instead of telling you how to fix your problems…
…or you hope that a man will instinctively make a great effort to meet your friends and family because it’s important to you…
…or you hope that a man will immediately tell you that he sees a future with you instead of playing games because his commitment makes you feel secure…
The same way that you wish that men just UNDERSTOOD this stuff naturally, men actually wish that they were understood, too.
The Secrets to Understanding Men Are No Longer Secrets
“I wish you really understood me.”
It’s likely that none of the men you’ve dated has ever said this to you.
They’ve probably never even said this to their friends! But they HAVE said to it to me. Not the bad men — the bad men are clueless – but the GOOD men. The men you want. The men who make you laugh. The men who believe in chivalry. The men who want families. The men who value commitment. These are the men I’m speaking for.
My eBook, “Why He Disappeared” provides an insider’s view of the entire dating process. For the first time, you will observe your own behavior during dates, courtship, and relationships from a man’s perspective.
I’ve decided to publish my book exclusively online in electronic format, so you can download it right now, and be reading it within just a few minutes…
Finally, you’ll understand what’s been getting in your way these many years, and how close you already are to being the woman of an incredible man’s dreams.
With the Insights You’ll Learn Through ‘Why He Disappeared’, You’ll Begin To Experience Men and Dating In an Amazing New Way…
You’ll be able to tell within a couple of weeks if a man is serious about you. And if he isn’t, you’ll just be able to walk away, with your confidence sky-high because you’ll know exactly what went wrong and that it wasn’t your fault.
You’ll be able to enter each new relationship with power and optimism, instead of fearing that moment when things come crashing down.
You’ll finally know the 3 secrets of what effective women do with men to make them never want to leave.
You’ll feel amazing because you’ll be able to cut off all of the men who are only interested in you casually, and focus exclusively on the men who have long-term interest in you.
You’ll be able to learn how to make the kind of man that makes you feel weak in the knees want to commit to you, so you can experience the incredible feeling of having the RIGHT man want YOU for a change.
You’ll learn how to feel so assured and relaxed around a man, that you come across as naturally very likeable, warm and magnetic and don’t have to worry about whether he will ask you out again.
You’ll learn how to read a man’s signals from the first date, so you’re not wasting years of your life on a man who will just disappear one day.
You’ll finally be able to stop the parade of awkward coffee dates, delayed follow ups and late night texts, and be in a relationship with a man who consistently does what he says, says what he means, and treats you the way you’d like to be treated.
You’ll finally know what men think about paying for a date, the first kiss, the first sexual encounter and most importantly, a foolproof way to make sure these “touchy” issues never backfire on you again.
You’ll be able to trust a man and get rid of that cloud of confusion and anxiety that often comes with dating. You’ll never again wonder why he does what he does, when he’s going to call, or what you should do differently. You’ll know, deep inside, that whatever you’re doing, it’s the right thing.
With the information and insights you’ll learn in my eBook, “Why He Disappeared,” you’ll be able to completely change your experience with men and dating. You’ll know how to effortlessly move a man toward a more secure and stable relationship. You’ll feel better, date smarter, and experience the kind of confidence and happiness you’ve always dreamed of.
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